Despite Trump’s liability in these prior cases, Carroll’s victory was incredibly gratifying for those observers who wanted Trump held accountable for his deplorable and corrupt actions. This suit was against him as an individual with no corporate fig leaf. Carroll and the other 20 women who accused Trump of sexual assault were validated. In the other cases in which Trump has been found liable, the punishment he received for his actions seemed distant from the pain that he caused. Through her courage and persistence, Carroll ensured Trump’s punishment was as personal as the pain he caused.
The pain Trump causes is usually impersonal. Some of Trump’s sexual assaults seemed impersonal to him, even though they were horrendous for the women he targeted. When Trump, laughing and joking, lured Carroll into a Bergdorf Goodman dressing room to sexually assault her, she represented a symbol through which he could prove his power. Trump’s defense was that he did not know that woman; she was not his type. An incident with Kristin Anderson, a woman Trump did not know, occurred in a nightclub. Sitting beside her, Trump touched her vagina through her underwear without speaking. In another instance, Trump sexually assaulted a woman he did not know on an airplane. Jessica Leeds testified in the Carroll trial that when she was seated next to him, Trump kissed her, groped her breast, and tried to put his hand up her skirt. These acts were not to provide him with sexual gratification. They were to increase his sense of power.
The Hollywood Access tape makes Trump’s feelings about women clear. In that secretly recorded video, Trump could be heard saying he did not wait to start kissing women because when you are a star, you can do anything you want, including grabbing them by the p---y.
Trump’s impersonal objectification of women combined with his notion that grabbing women is a star’s privilege, a privilege reminiscent of a “counting coup.” Counting coup is the term used to describe a practice of the Plains Indians to show their bravery and ability to overcome an enemy. A warrior, for example, might touch an enemy with his hand in a battle or sneak into an enemy camp and steal a horse or weapons. Escaping unharmed entitled the warrior to some honorific such as wearing an eagle feather or marking a “coup stick.” Assaulting women seems to be Trump’s selfish and nasty way of counting coup. Of course, for Trump counting coup is not about braver or honor. Instead, it is about seizing a worth he does not possess and to which he is not entitled.
Counting coup or exercising a star’s privilege - Trump’s father called it being a killer - provides even more of a window into Trump’s character. It shows that he regards women as objects whose primary purpose is to allow him to display his power. More importantly, this window shows how the impersonal acts of Trumpism will cause pain to others. A pain that an increasing number of women and men understand results from Trumpism.